I am a practicing clinical psychologist and faculty at Brown University.
In my writing, clinical practice, and research, I share science-backed ideas and practices that foster healthier, happier relationships.
My forthcoming book, Why Don’t You Understand Me?: The Surprising Science Behind Connection in a World of Missed Signals, will be available on October 27, 2026.
My Books
My Relational Riffs Newsletter
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Join the Relational Riffs newsletter for research-backed insights on understanding, misunderstanding, and the surprising science of human connection (delivered with the occasional dry remark or 80’s movie reference).
My Speaking
I speak for organizations and smaller groups about the science and ideas I write about. I’ve worked with smaller groups (several people) and to audiences of several hundred. Topics of expertise include: organizational communication; preventing burnout; working-caregiver thriving; values clarification; creating happier work and family environments.
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My Private Practice
I specialize in science-backed relationship therapy and work with couples who want to communicate better, have more intimacy, parent more collaboratively, and who are recovering from a significant betrayal. Together, I will work with you and your partner to identify specific short- and long-term goals, and to develop a treatment plan tailored to your unique needs. With humor, kindness, and honest examination, I will gently encourage you to gain insight and try out new approaches that will allow you to heal and grow. I’ll also try to laugh with you as much as I possibly can, because the best therapy is fun therapy.
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